Culprit & Victim

When an offence is committed against the victim, the victim remembers.
Culprit forgets or pretends to forget. The reason is, Culprit is not the sufferer. Even if Culprit remembers, Culprit pretends to forgetso that the culprit can get away with it!i.e. 'Act Blurr' 'Act forgetful'.

Smart move. So Culprit thinks.

Victim can always do something back to Culprit.
Haven't us read in the papers or heard about people being stabbed, beaten up, being framed, windscreen smashed, child being thrown down from flats, army officer's eyes gorged out, officer being stabbed ........

There's always a cause to these. This' the law of CAUSE AND EFFECT. Therefore, don't MARK AROUND.

It's not simply "whatever is 'over' is 'over'".

Even if Victim doesn't take vengeance, God says, "VENGEANCE IS MINE, I'LL REPAY." And that's a worse form of punishmentfor Culprit.

Pride to apologize genuinely and sincerely is form of idolatry.And the punishment for idolatry is to the THIRD AND FOURTHGENERATION!!! The 10 commandments say so. And the 10 commandments weren't written down for 'fun'.
People who have such pride are a pitiful lot. They don't know what they and their future generations WILL be getting!!

My observation is that people who says "whatever is 'over'is 'over'", when they themselves got hurt, remember the hurt and sought VENGEANCE!!!??

Didn't the person say "whatever is 'over' is 'over'"??